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Fingering Tips – Hot On The Inside

When the body is warm, aroused and open, you can take the next step. Delve into her depths! These penetrative moves will help you navigate her inner chambers with sensual skill.

The Tao of the Jade Chamber

The individual areas of the human genitals are all themselves associated with other parts of the human body. Based on the same Eastern science as I mentioned earlier when discussing how to turn her on with a foot massage, this genital reflexology allows you to cultivate pleasure and sexual awareness in your relationship while nurturing overall body health.

In Taoism, the female genitals are referred to, with due love and reverence, as the Jade Chamber. Exercising and healing the entire reproductive system, through massaging the vagina, encouraging multiple orgasms, and circulating loving energy, is considered vital to a full and healthy life.

Reflexology and Genital Massage

Female genital massage for the purposes of healing requires as much, if not more, lubrication as fingering strictly for pleasure. Try to get something natural and organic. Coconut oil works exceptionally well, because it stays mostly solid at room temperature, but don't forget that it isn't condom-safe.

Being engorged during genital massage is incredibly important for her, so it is good to practice this massage after some of the other techniques we have already discussed. The extra blood flow to the region will encourage healing and regeneration.

After performing a few of the labia stretching and massage moves I told you about before, insert one or two fingers into the lubricated vaginal canal and circle all the way around to the top, sides, and bottom. This will help you to find her most sensitive spots and stimulate different areas of her body for healing.

Use the diagram above to focus your healing work on specific areas of the body, or learn how to give her a full-body work out. You are only able to directly stimulate the three lower rings, but deep multiple orgasms will stimulate the fluttering of the cervix and spasms in the uterus that lead to healing in those areas as well.

One (finger) or Two

One-fingered moves are great for warming up, especially with smaller women. The resting size and aroused capacity of a woman's vagina varies from one person to the next. Some women may be more than happy with only one or maybe two fingers. Other women may have a hard time feeling stimulated with only one finger, especially if they have had children.

These first skills are great for all women. If she has difficult enjoying only one finger, you can use two instead, and encouraging her to squeeze her PC muscles and enjoy multiple orgasms will actually exercise, strengthen and tighten her vagina. Women who are only able to fit one or two fingers most of the time will find that this gives them greater elasticity, without permanent stretching, and increases their capacity for pleasure.

Pulling You In
One of the best ways to make the transition from the genital massage we've already discussed, or the oral sex skills I talk about in my book "Hot Licks," is to ask her for an invitation to penetration. If you place one or two fingers at the entrance to her canal, without penetrating, and ask her to try and suck you in with her Kegel muscles, she'll get a workout, you'll get a great view of vaginal strength at work, and you can make a little game of it!

By squeezing her PC muscles - the same ones she would use to stop the flow of urine - she creates a slight suction that can pull your finger in. If her muscles are still building and she isn't able to suck you all the way in, encourage her to move her hips and masturbate herself on your finger. This will not only be a big turn on for you both, but will give you an idea of the rhythm and force she wants. Generally speaking; if she pulls away from you, you are going too hard and fast. If she pushes herself onto you, try taking it a bit harder and faster.

Do the Twist
When it comes to penetration, many women are exclusively aware of the sensation of thrusting in and out. This move will give your wife a chance to feel something completely different.

With your one or two fingers inserted up to a comfortable depth, penetrate about one third of the way into her corridor and, instead of thrusting, hold your depth and twist your wrist from left to right, back and forth, all along the wall. If you can feel her G-Spot, you may want to crook your fingers ever so slightly and gauge her reaction.

If she is very receptive to this move, she may also enjoy twisting while thrusting, but take it slow. Her depth will change with her cycle, so she may enjoy thrusting sometimes and not others. Pay attention to her reactions with all of these new and interesting sensations.

Come Hither
Once you've located that spongy spot on the front wall of the vagina, and her arousal is clear, you can then begin to stimulate it more directly. The Come Hither move is famous for producing the infamous G-Spot orgasm, especially if you started out your session with a bit of U-Spot stimulation as well.

With one or two fingers only slightly crooked, rest the pads of your fingertips on her golden spot, as the Taoists say, and slowly make the "come hither" motion. Bend further and draw your fingers across the spot with some pressure. Increase pressure based on her response, but don't start thrusting unless she asks you to, which she may, as she is getting close to orgasm.

If she suddenly has the urge to pee, this is the onset of a G-Spot orgasm. If you don't mind getting wet, urge her to go with it and release, and be sure to tell her how amazing and sexy she is. Oh, and watch your eyes! While most women may only squirt a few inches, some can squirt several feet, depending on their position.

     

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